2009年6月2日星期二

MBTI溝通學之Tell me more

上一篇說ES,這篇是它的對家IN

差勁的IN,其溝通模式是「你問一句,對方答一句」。

有個經典故事是這樣的

有個人到外國旅行,想順道探望外婆,但卻忘了她的住址,
於是給家人發了一個電報:「你知道外婆的住址嗎?速告!」

就在當天,那人就收到一個加急回電:「知道。」


可能IN真的不知道,朋友與你們溝通,或許想聽你說多一點

就當是「說一句送一句」,好嗎?

4 則留言:

  1. Omg!! Can't believe there's such kind of people out there! I would definitely ignore that person forever if that scenerio happened to me!~ I guess that's not just a matter of character, but a matter of being dumb or not haha~

    However, I really laughed out loud when I was reaidng the above story :p

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  2. The story is a joke. And I think the author (unknown) is very clever and interesting.

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  3. 弊喇!我好有共鳴呀...
    雖然冇個故仔咁誇張,但都覺得好似我呀...

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  4. re: Yat Leung,
    能夠有所發現時一件好事。
    有些人把溝通技巧弄得太複雜了!其實要學溝通,最重要是了解自己的溝通模式。

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