2009年3月17日星期二

#3的盲點 - 大小#3的故事

聽過兩位#3的分享,一個叫大#3,一個叫小#3。

大#3,訴說她小時候自視甚高,也從都焦不起他人,讀書成績好,聰明能幹,無人能敵。後來她發現這是不對,努力改變。結果變得更成功,不再自以為是。

小#3,認為在同儕中自己經驗豐富,就目中無人,不用聽同儕指指點點。後來他發覺不是,留意到別人優點是自己所缺乏的,開始懂得欣賞他人,虛心學習。

對於#3來說,其中一個盲點就是把自己看得太高

「山外有山,人外有人,強中自有強中手。」大概可以成為#3的座右銘呢!

7 則留言:

  1. Haha, although I am a typical #3, I gotta admit having that blindspot...

    Who are those big and small #3? Those stories sound familar to me, probably I am a mixture of both :p

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  2. re: Empressjudy,
    Haha, Big/Small #3 spoke on behalf of his/her brother and sister.

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  3. So are you sure they weren't expressing their own thoughts? Coz people usually don't dare to admit their deep inner feelings or experiences especially when they were bad or not that gracious ones haha~~

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  4. 我的意思是:
    大小#3的故事,是代表著其他#3的故事(也就是#3的兄弟姊妹),所以#3看的時候會覺得有些像自己的故事呢。

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  5. Oh!~ I see...... Hehe, sorry for the misinterpretation...

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  6. Haha~ Yes, just like a metaphor... lol~

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